随身英语
Talking to strangers 与陌生人聊天
我们中的许多人每天都有一部分时间被陌生人包围着，无论是在上下班的路上，还是坐在公园或咖啡馆里……但他们和我们只保持着陌生人的关系。然而，新的研究证据表明，与新认识的人开始一段对话可能对健康大有益处。本文讨论与陌生人交谈的好处。
Vocabulary: mental health 词汇: 心理健康
‘It’s good to talk’, so some people say. When I commute into London, there are certainly plenty of people conversing on their mobile phones – sometimes too loudly – discussing and sharing personal details with a friend. For me, it’s strange that they talk as though the person is sitting next to them, when they don’t even acknowledge the person who is actually sitting beside them.
Many of us spend part of each day surrounded by strangers, whether on our daily commute, or sitting in a park or a cafe. But most of them remain just that – strangers. However, new evidence has shown that plucking up the courage to strike up a conversation might be good for our health.
Nicholas Epley from the University of Chicago and Juliana Schroeder from the University of California are behavioural scientists. They looked at this silent relationship and whether solitude is a more positive experience than interacting with strangers, or if people misunderstand the consequences of distant social connections. They found that many people feel uncomfortable and intimidated talking to others and their research suggested that when we make an initial conversation “we consistently underestimate how much a new person likes us.” It seems we carry a negative voice in our head telling us all the things that could go wrong and why someone wouldn’t want to converse with us.
Their research involved an experiment with a group of Chicago commuters and found that “every participant in our experiment who actually tried to talk to a stranger found the person sitting next to them was happy to chat.” From this and other research, the conclusion is that connecting with strangers is surprisingly pleasant and it has a positive impact on our wellbeing. Gillian Sandstrom, a social psychologist from Essex University in the UK, told the BBC that “people are in a better mood after they reach out and have a conversation, however minimal.” It’s true that talking can make you feel happier and happiness can lead to better mental health.
However, if you’re an introvert, the thought of speaking to someone new might make you anxious. But the American research found “both extroverts and introverts are happier when they are asked to behave in an extroverted manner.” So maybe, if you’re a loner, it’s time to come out of your shell and make some small talk with a stranger – it could be the beginning of a new friendship.
词汇表
converse 交谈，对话
pluck up the courage 鼓起勇气
strike up 开始（交谈）
solitude 独处
interact 交往，交流
social connections 社会关系
uncomfortable 不舒服的，难受的
intimidated 发怵的，害怕的
underestimate 低估
negative voice （头脑里）负面的声音，消极的思想
chat 聊天
connect with 与……建立良好的关系
wellbeing 健康
mood 心情
introvert 性格内向的人
anxious 焦虑的
extroverts 性格外向的人
come out of your shell 变得不再自闭，融入外部世界
(make) small talk 闲聊，寒暄
测验与练习
1. 阅读课文并回答问题。
1. According to the article, how can talking to a stranger be better for our health?
2. Why might we not want to speak to a stranger?
3. True or false? Commuters in Chicago involved in a social experiment found that people they sat next to were willing to talk to them.
4. In another experiment, in what way did introverts behave that made them happier?
5. What could help start the beginning of a new friendship?
2. 请在不参考课文的情况下完成下列练习。选择一个意思合适的单词填入句子的空格处。
1. Our train broke down and we were stuck on board for hours, so I decided to _______ a conversation with the other passengers.
interacting connecting strike up small talk
2. We _______ how much it would cost to move house and now we’re broke!
underestimate underestimated underestimating underestimates
3. When I started university, I was _______ by the clever and talented people I was surrounded by – but now most of them are my friends.
anxious introverted intimidated negative voice
4. Our intern was quite nervous when he started but now he’s _______ and fits in really well.
come out of his shell coming out of his shell came out of his shell shelled out
5. Dan is definitely an _______ - every time we go out, he’s the first to get up and sing at the karaoke bar!
introvert negative voice extrovert mood
答案
1. 阅读课文并回答问题。
1. According to the article, how can talking to a stranger be better for our health?
Talking to strangers can put you in a good mood and make you feel happier, and happiness can lead to better mental health.
2. Why might we not want to speak to a stranger?
We carry a negative voice in our head telling us all the things that could go wrong and why a stranger wouldn’t want to converse with us.
3. True or false? Commuters in Chicago involved in a social experiment found that people they sat next to were willing to talk to them.
True. An experiment with a group of Chicago commuters found that “every participant in our experiment who actually tried to talk to a stranger found the person sitting next to them was happy to chat.”
4. In another experiment, in what way did introverts behave that made them happier?
American research found “both extroverts and introverts are happier when they are asked to behave in an extroverted manner.”
5. What could help start the beginning of a new friendship?
Reaching out and making small talk with a stranger could be the beginning of a new friendship.
2. 请在不参考课文的情况下完成下列练习。选择一个意思合适的单词填入句子的空格处。
1. Our train broke down and we were stuck on board for hours, so I decided to strike up a conversation with the other passengers.
2. We underestimated how much it would cost to move house and now we’re broke!
3. When I started university, I was intimidated by the clever and talented people I was surrounded by – but now most of them are my friends.
4. Our intern was quite nervous when he started, but now he’s come out of his shell and fits in really well.
5. Dan is definitely an extrovert - every time we go out, he’s the first to get up and sing at the karaoke bar!
