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Every girl is different--if they were all alike, you wouldn't be interested in this one in particular, now would you? There are as many different ways to get a girl as there are girls, so let's go over some basic rules that'll win over any girl worth getting.

每个女孩都不一样，要是她们都一样的话，你肯定没理由就只对这个感兴趣，你说是吧？世上有多少女孩，咱就有多少让她们喜欢咱的招儿。我们先来缕一缕一些基本思路，然后你就能战无不胜。

Steps 步骤

1. Have your own life. 好好过自己的日子。

If you tend to fall into the "friend zone", this is especially important. Girls don't like guys who have no lives, and who cling to them like plastic wrap. Actually, some girls do like that, but usually for all the wrong reasons--either they're insecure and needy for attention, or they're control freaks who like to dominate guys. Unless you want to sign up for either of those scenarios, focus filling your time with your own friendships, interests, and goals.

这一步对“想和她先做朋友”的同胞们尤其重要。姑娘们不喜欢没有自己生活的男生，更不喜欢像塑料包装一样黏糊着她们的家伙。虽说现实中有些女孩儿喜欢被男生黏着，但她们喜欢被黏的理由都不太正常：要么就是她没安全感，需要别人的注意；要么就是控制狂，总想操纵咱老爷们。除非你想学周瑜打黄盖，她愿打你愿挨，否则你最好投入更多精力去搞好自己的友谊、兴趣和人生理想。

2. Make an impression. 留给她印象。

There's no one-size-fits-all solution here. What impresses one girl might make another roll her eyes. Your best bet is to be yourself. Demonstrate a unique skill or talent that you're proud of, something that sets you apart from the crowd. Not only will this make her feel good about you, but it can boost your confidence, too.

没有放之四海皆准的做法。也许你做的事情能让这个女孩回味，却让另一个反胃。最好的方法就是做你自己。给她瞧瞧你的绝活，或者你引以为豪的卓尔不群的才华。这可不只会叫她对你印象良好，你也会因此信心倍增。

3. Flirt. 巧妙地调情。

When you see or meet a girl you like, make brief eye contact. Smile. Strike up a casual conversation. Most importantly, relax. Don't think of her as the girl of your dreams; don't worry about what will happen if you make a bad joke, or you've got something stuck to your teeth. Enjoy interacting with this attractive, friendly girl whose path crossed yours. Live in the moment.

遇着你喜欢的女孩时，蜻蜓点水一般和她来个眼神接触。微笑。制造一个轻松的对话。最重要一点：别紧张。别把她当成你的梦中女神；别去想笑话讲冷了会怎样；哪怕牙缝里塞了东西也不要紧。重要的是享受和她，和这个与你生命产生交集而又魅力非凡的她，你来我往两相交流的过程。活在当下才是王道。

4. Talk to her. 对话。

Tell her what you really enjoy in life, what gets you excited and what you want to leap out of bed to pursue. Ask her what she really loves in life and what gets her excited. Be positive. If you have had a bad day, still greet them with pleasure and a big smile. Most importantly, listen.

告诉她你生命的热情所在，告诉她是什么事情能让你从床上一跃而起去追求。也问问她对什么感到兴奋。展示给她你积极的人生态度。即便你倒了一天霉，也要微笑豁达着面对。记住，认真地倾听她说的话。

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