要疯了：男人求婚太晚的后果（组图）

男同胞们，你可知道求婚太晚会给女人造成怎样的伤害吗？ 担心、嫉妒、恼火、绝望、要疯了……来看看女人们的真实心迹。

While the vast majority of women are happy to let their relationships develop at their own pace - there are apparently quite a few who feel the total opposite.
虽然绝大多数女性都很乐意让恋情自然地发展，但是也有女性不这么想，而且这样的女性还不少。

Dozens of women have taken to secret-sharing site Whisper to reveal how they REALLY feel about waiting to get engaged... and it's not good.
数十名女性在秘密分享网站Whisper上吐露了自己等待订婚的真实心情……而且这滋味并不好受。

It appears for most of these women, marriage is the ultimate goal - and some seem pretty offended that their boyfriend has yet to pop the question.
对大多数这些女性来说，结婚似乎是她们的终极目标——有些人甚至因为男友还没求婚而相当恼火。

One woman refused to be 'just the girlfriend' and hinted she'd break up with her boyfriend if he didn't propose soon
一个女人拒绝“只做女朋友”，并暗示说，如果男友不在近期求婚，她就要和他分手。

“我告诉男友我的女友身份是有有效期的。我不会一辈子都只做他的女朋友。”

This woman was just one of many who felt that she couldn't 'wait any longer'
这个女人只是众多“再也等不了”的女人中的一员。

“我真的很希望我的男友能向我求婚。我一直在等。我觉得自己再也等不了了。”

From the woman who refuses to spend her life as 'just the girlfriend' from the one who's planning to split from her long-term partner because seeing other friends get engaged 'breaks her heart' - these ladies are not holding back.
从拒绝再做女朋友到因为看到朋友们纷纷订婚而打算和交往多年的男友分手，这些女性的心迹袒露无遗。

One admitted she was about to end her long-term relationship because of how jealous she feels when friends get engaged.
一个女人坦言说，因为朋友订婚而心生嫉妒的她打算和交往多年的男友分手。

“我正准备离开交往了三年半的男友……他还没有向我求婚，每当我看到我的某个朋友订婚或结婚时，我嫉妒得心都碎了。”

In a post that is bound to send chills down the spine of some men, this lady said she was 'literally going insane' waiting for a proposal.
在一个帖子中，这位女性表示她等求婚等得“快要疯了”。这样的心声恐怕会让一些男性不寒而栗。

“我等我的男友求婚等得快要疯了。我觉得我等得已经够久了。我害怕自己的疯狂会把他吓走。有什么办法可以在等待订婚的过程中不疯掉？”

This woman was clearly starting to question the future of her relationship
这名女性显然已开始质疑恋情的未来。

“我和我的男友在一起五年了，我等他求婚已经等得绝望了。我已经准备好做他的妻子。我开始怀疑他是否想娶我为妻……”

One clearly felt as though she'd waited long enough for her boyfriend to pop the question
一名女性显然觉得她等男友求婚已经等得够久了。

“要是我的男友向我求婚就好了。我实在不懂他为什么要拖这么久。”

Plenty of women expressed the fear that their partner may never propose to them
许多女性担心她们的男友永远不会求婚。

“我希望他能向我求婚。我已经等累了，我害怕那一天永远不会到来。”

One woman felt the lack of a proposal indicated that her boyfriend didn't feel like she was 'good enough'
一名女性认为男友不求婚意味着男友认为她“不够好”。

“我已经和某人在一起将近6年了，他却还没求婚，这开始让我感到抑郁。这让我觉得自己不够好。”

英文来源：每日邮报
翻译&编辑：丹妮