那些同事们爱听和不爱听的话

办公室就是一个小社会，形形色色的人都有。不过，好话是谁都爱听的，所以一定要学会赞美和感谢同事的地道表达。同时，产生了矛盾、做错了事也要及时解决。该道歉的道歉，该据理力争的就去争。

1.赞美同事的万能句：你真棒！

经典表达：
You are looking sharp!
你看上去真棒/真精神/真漂亮！（sharp的意义很多，根据不同情况解释不同）

举一反三：
You look great!
You look nice in that color.
You are really talented.
You have a good sense of humor.
You did a good job./Well done!/Nice doing!
We are so proud of you.
I’m really impressed with your presentation skills.

2.感谢同事的万能句：你真是帮了我大忙。

经典表达：
You helped a lot!
你真是帮了我大忙。

举一反三：
Thanks a million.
I really appreciate it.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
I cant’t thank you enough.
I want to thank you for your kindness to me.
I really appreciate what you’ve done for me.
I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate your help the other day.
It’s generous of you to take so much interest in my work.
How thankfully I feel for your help.
Without your help I really don’t know what I would have done.

3.产生矛盾如何解决：我想和你谈谈。

经典表达：
I want to speak to you for a moment.
我想和你谈谈。

举一反三：
It is not clear to me what you meant.
We all have our crosses, I suppose.
Let me explain my actions.
It’s not like that.
It’s not fair.
What do you want?
I’m not very pleased with you.
I just can’t stand it any more.
I don’t know how to deal with him.

4.向同事道歉的万能句：请接受我诚挚的道歉。

经典表达：

Please accept my deep apologies.
请接受我诚挚的道歉。

举一反三：
I apologize for what happened.
I apologize for my mistake.
I must apologize for what I said about that.
I want to apologize for being late.
You have my sincere apology.
I beg your pardon.
I must ask your pardon for my carelessness.
Please forgive me.
Will you ever forgive me?
I’m terribly sorry about that.
I’m sorry for giving you so much trouble.
I hope you will excuse me.

（来源：沪江英语 编辑：许晶晶）