生活中哪些真相让你心碎？

国外问答网站Quora上面经常会有一些特别精彩的问题和答案，今天我们跟大家分享其中一个问题。

What is the most disturbing truth about life?
人生最令人不安的真相是什么?

获得3.9k好评的回答：@Abhinav Tyagi

I would like to answer this with a quote,"Everyone in this world is self-centered. It’s just the radiusthat makes the difference."
我想引用一句话回复你：在这个世界上，每个人都是以自我为中心的，只是每个人的半径有所不同。

获得7.4k好评的回答：@Sree Ramanath

Success hugs you in private but failure slaps you in public.
成功都是悄悄接近你的，但是失败却是当众打你脸的。

获得6.9k好评的回答：@Barbie Giri

We all had that one close person in our lives, who is now a stranger. During the course of your life, you will have to stop, and let some people off, no matter how close they are. And someday while reading something like this, you will look back and count.
我们生命都有过那个ta，曾经形容不离，后来形同陌路。在生命的慢慢长路上，你都有必须停下来的时候，让他人离开你，无论他们同你多么亲近。而某一天，当你读到这类文字的时候，你会回头看看，然后回忆，回忆，回忆。

获得1k好评的回答：@Brandon Lee

Most people in life have to spend years relearning the exact same lessons that the previous generation have already learned.
生活中太多人，必须耗费多年重学前人已经学会的东西。

获得8.2k好评的回答：@Ashish Sareen

Your looks matter!! You will always be judged first on the basis of your appearance before anything else.
你的长相至关重要！！你总是会被第一眼以貌取人。

获得6.4k好评的回答：@Sachin R Kamath

"Happiness is your biggest enemy. It weakens you. Puts doubts in your mind. Suddenly you have something to lose."- Niki Lauda, Rush(2013)
“幸福是最大的敌人，它让你软弱，让你心生怀疑。突然间你就有了放不下的事。”尼基·劳达《极速风流》（2013）

获得10.9k好评的回答：@Akash Maheshwari

Friends come and go, but enemies remain and build up.
友人来来去去，但敌人越积多。

获得4.5k好评的回答：@Shivam Sarawagi

85% of your financial success is due to your personality and ability to communicate, negotiate, and lead. Shockingly, only 15% is due to technical knowledge.
你在财政上的成功85%取决于你的个性、你交际、商谈和领导的能力。令人震惊的是，只有15%取决于你的专业知识。

获得4k好评的回答：@ Akshay Vannery

Nothing really matters. In the grand scheme of things, you, your legacy, your existence, your contribution to the world.. doesn't matter how great it is..Time will destroy everything.
没有什么是至关重要的。从事物的宏观角度出发，你、你的遗产、你的存在、你对世界的贡献无论多么伟大，都不值一提。时间会摧毁一切。

获得11.3k好评的回答：@Anonymous

-No one apart from your parents gives a crap about you.
除了你的父母别人都会嫌弃你。

-Your friends want you to be successful but not more successful than them.
你的朋友希望你很成功——但是不要比他们成功。

-Your friends want you to be happy but not happier than them.
你的朋友希望你过得开心——但是不要比他们开心。

（来源：沪江英语，编辑 Helen）